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what do you do if you got heartbreak?

1. crying?

2. screaming?

3. saying rude words?

4. keeping yourself in your own room?

5. don't wanna eat?

6. drink alcohol?

7. riding your motorcycle or car with high speed at midnight?

8. go to the pub and meet your friends, and get drunken every night?

9. running around to let your pain away?

10. getting mad at everyone you meet?

11. throwing all of things in your room and making it untidy?

12. writing all of your pain, your anger into your diary book?

13. tearing many papers into small pieces and spreading it all around your room?

14. lying in your bed all the day and thinking how stupid you are?

15. blaming yourself because of your stupidity, carelessness, or whatever it is?

16. watching television all day and all night long, 24 hours, to relieve your pain?

17. just stay at home and don't wanna do anything else?

18. or even maybe you just sleep, still crying even in your dream and screaming when you wake up?

oh my, maybe for 'normal' people those things are silly and useless to do

but for 'abnormal' people, those suck things are the best thing that they can do

i'm serious, this is what i can see all around the world. when someone got heartbreak, they will do at least 5 or 6 of  18 activities above. some people admit that it works, and their pain feel like flying away. but many people also said that those 18 things above make them stress, more than they haven't done those yet. heartbreak is painful indeed, it can make us lazy, or even don't wanna do anything, such as eating, drinking, watching television, working, going to school or college, cleaning room, thinking, even sleeping. yeah, i am serious. WE WON'T GET GOOD SLEEP WHEN OUR HEART JUST GOT HEARTBREAK. we'll always get bad dream, and at that time we'll wake up by screaming loudly and feel worry, angry, etc. and it, of course, makes us feel worse and worse, until we arrive in our worst condition.

i have an advice for who have got heartbreak. just relax your mind, and don't think anything about your couple. just do what you want, but don't make your body sick, for example no eating for several days, it doesn't help at all. go to the beach, mountain, or other beautiful and relaxing place to refresh your mind. after that, just go shopping!! or maybe window-shopping is enough. just walking around the mall near your town and seeing many kind of clothes, accessories, bags and so on. it can make you happy automatically. if two of these advices don't work, don't worry. you can make your favorite meals, serve it by yourself, and enjoy it with a glass of milk or coffee and watch your favorite movie. don't stop the movie until you feel better. just play the movie until you can forget your heartbreak. if you wanna cry, just cry. don't be shy to anyone else. don't care about them. if you wanna scream, just scream. if you don't want your scream be heard, just scream in the pillow. i guarantee it works very well. and, one important thing that you must note in your heart. NEVER EVER DO STUPID THINGS LIKE SUICIDE. NEVER !!! many people feel useless after they got heartbreak and decide to end their life. that's too silly and stupid, even the most stupid action in this case. it just makes you guys be a fool person.

so if you got heartbreak, just relax, think nothing, and keep your heart choose what you should do for your next life, without him/her. trust me, it works !! :)

ps: i said abnormal, it refers to they who have got heartbreak, so please don't be angry with this nickname, i do this just to shorten my writing :)